Mindset
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TIME IS TICTACKING LIKE A WATCH
Time is priceless and the world keeps spinning.
Time is the most valuable asset we have in a lifetime.
Learn how to prioritize your time by investing in yourself first.
We need to take time to enjoy things in life.
However, we know that time can't be bought.
Investing money early is the best way of getting ahead to build wealth in order to secure your future.
The stock market has plenty opportunities to earn money, with the right skills and proper understanding of how everything in the market works.
Building wealth involves developing important good habits like regularly putting money away to make solid investments.
Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting us in the near future.
Putting our precious time and effort in activities/investments that will yield a profitable ROI in the future is what we should be aiming for.
Success depends on decisions you take to achieve it.
You won't remember $500 shoes you bought in the past.
But, when you look at your bank account everyday, you will always remember that extra zero you put in there.
You can rise up from anything if you've strong belief.
You can recreate yourself because nothing is permanent.
You're not stuck, you still have the choice to figure out.
You can think otherwise, think about new perspectives.
You can learn something new, have new habits.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
Future belongs to the consistent, not the lucky, not the talented but the ones who show up everyday.
Effort will never betray you, it will always pay you off.
HOW TO BUILD WEALTH?
LEILA HORMOZI
SUCCESSFUL BLUEPRINT
EMMA GREDE
MISSION ABROAD
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WASTED MONEY
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DISCIPLINE ACT
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BRAINWASHING DAY
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STEP 1
What do you think of yourself?
What do you believe you are capable of?
What do you do currently to change things around?
Write everything down in order to visualize things better.
Your brain is made to believe in what you tell it to believe.
STEP 2
You're smart and figure things out.
You can do whatever you put your mind to.
You deserve to earn millions of dollars everyday.
All these things will serve you to create that new identity.
STEP 3
Take risks to get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Make your goal of becoming a better person a priority.
Surround yourself with people who lift you up.
STEP 4
Minimum 3 to 6 months daily, no days off.
The confidence will come with the consistency.
BILLIONAIRE'S MINDSET
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SECRET 1
Billionaires think about money as a tool.
They learn things that the marketplace needs.
Mastering communication, sales, new technologies.
Getting free time to be more creative solving problems.
Saving the money doesn't make you rich, investing it does.
Money is valuable when it's invested in yourself.
Entrepreneurship isn't physical, it's mental.
SECRET 2
Billionaires protect their energy like it's currency.
They only put their energy where it compounds.
Spending quality time with valuable people.
Seeking for new businesses ideas to grow.
Cutting off drama and distractions.
What isn't adding is subtracting.
Nothing is really neutral.
SECRET 3
Billionaires always live in the future, not in the present.
They think about what to do today to be set for life.
They block time for much bigger future goals.
They get to learn revolutionary skills.
So, they get even richer.
SECRET 4
Billionaires build in public, not in secret.
They document their journey publicly on a daily basis.
Their visibility creates opportunities that privacy never will.
Visibility equals credibility, get known on social media.
SECRET 5
Billionaires create standards, they don't adapt to them.
They build a space that resonates with their mentality.
They're not settle and refuse to compromise.
PERSONAL BRANDING
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LESSON 1
Your brand isn't about followers or numbers.
Your brand is an asset, think of it like a machine.
Stay focused on attention, opportunities and money.
LESSON 2
Stop focusing on numbers, followers and likes.
Start focusing on people who engage, learn and buy.
Always ask yourself why should someone follow you.
LESSON 3
Let the people know about your story.
What challenge have you overcome?
What skills are you willing to share?
What makes you unique?
LESSON 4
Get very clear on who you're speaking to.
Stop trying to talk to everyone, it's the biggest trap.
Narrow down your audience to those who take action.
LESSON 5
70% of your content should be educational or actionable.
20% should be your stories and struggles.
10% should be your offers.
LESSON 6
Structure your posts in order to give value to your audience.
Connect emotionally with those who can relate to you.
LESSON 7
Monetization doesn't have to feel like pushy sales.
Basically, you should start with a freebie to build trust.
You upgrade with a small offer for engagement.
Then, you end up with a premium program.
LESSON 8
Visibilty and Algorithm are friends if you handle them.
Consistency doesn't mean working 24/7.
Every post should have a purpose.
It's about being strategic.
Bring high value.
LESSON 9
Lavish lifestyle and big audience will come later.
But, only after building a system that works, no drain.
Remember : identity, audience, content, monetization.
These are the foundations of your personal brand.
RESPECT IN BUSINESS
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TOPIC 1
People always mirror the recpect you have for yourself.
Stop asking for permission, go ahead and execute.
Stop waiting for respect, decide that you have it.
When you chase respect, you actually lose it.
When you embody respect, people feel it.
TOPIC 2
Say NO as a full sentence.
Being nice is being replaceable.
You'll get abused and walked all over.
Boundaries aren't walls, they're price tags.
Setting boundaries will make you more powerful.
Otherwise, you'll signal that you don't value yourself.
Don't be too much empathetic with all your employees.
Delegate everything except your vision for your business.
TOPIC 3
Say less, move more, let the results talk.
Stop justifying what your standards should be.
Stop explaining to people who don't listen to you.
When you've an idea in your mind, zip it and execute it.
Each business savvy knows that viral brand worths millions.
Explaining things wastes time and drains energy.
It almost invites to negociations.
TOPIC 4
Respect is taught through consequences, not conversations.
Respect is about how ruthlessly you enforce your standard.
If an employee's questioning your decision, find another.
People don't change their opinion on communication.
They change it on consequences only.
TOPIC 5
Leaving is having an evolution to get to your goals.
People you tolerate in your circle determine your worth.
If you want to become who you're meant to be, move out.
People around you will always treat you like you used to be.
Being around people who think small, shrink your vision.
They will always see what you do as something too big.
They doubt all your decisions and won't support you.
They see you through an outdated version of you.
Your ambition don't match their standards.
It threatens their own comfort in life.
They want you to stay relatable.
TOPIC 6
Control your emotions or they'll control your respect.
Keep moving strategically in order to become unstoppable.
Losing emotional control in moments of power, kills respect.
People will always search for negociations and acceptation.
Don't perform your emotions and walk away.
TOPIC 7
High value people don't argue, they exit.
Arguing for proof means you actually don't have it.
No debate, no defending, no explaining, just a walk away.
Success is the best revenge, exiting is a power move.
Being too nice won't get you respected.
Only boundaries and execution will.
ELEVEN MONEY RULES
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RULE 1
Money loves speed.
Broke people love certainty.
Wealthy people make fast decisions.
Broke people want all the answers and blueprints.
Money goes to people that create momentum, not plans.
Through the process, you'll discover what works for you.
Everything in life comes after you make a decision.
Overthinking leads to losing on opportunities.
Speed beats perfection in wealth building.
Clarity only exists after taking action.
People want clarity before action.
Create luck by moving fast.
Stop wasting time.
Take action.
RULE 2
Self-worth is the reflection of the price tag.
Bringing value always end up with good results.
Through building a personal brand, you can succeed.
Build up a social media presence that makes you money.
People keep their prices low and they're scared to be judged.
People will pay you as long as you make them more money.
They know how much value you bring to make it happen.
They're aligned with your vison and have trust in you.
They want to invest in themselves on your behalf.
You don't raise your prices when you get better.
You raise them knowing you deserve better.
The value you bring is the major key.
RULE 3
Money goes to the boldest, not the most qualified.
Audacity always translates to money in business.
Bold people don't wait for someone's approval.
At the end of the day, everything has a price.
You cannot be a master at something new.
Don't be scared to look like a beginner.
Take risks on every opportunities.
Learn from your mistakes.
You'll end up winning.
RULE 4
People always look up to the winners.
Humble money habits is what keeps you broke.
Don't be scared to show your success on social media.
If people get to see your value, they'll resonate with you.
RULE 5
A decision you've made or didn't make can change your life.
Rich people take responsabilities on every circumstances.
Broke people blame the circumstances all the time.
RULE 6
Attention is the most expensive currency.
Money follows attention, not hard work or effort.
Get attention from people and the money will follow.
People won't buy from you if you keep being unnoticed.
They want to know how your product can change their life.
RULE 7
The first 100K is harder to make than the next million.
Uncertainty, low confidence, self-worth issues will come.
Things get easier as long as you repeat them long enough.
Most people quit before 100K for being uncomfortable.
The biggest lessons always come at the beginning.
Self-confidence will rise in the process.
Don't give up when it gets hard.
RULE 8
You cannot make money having a broke identity.
Your bank account matches what your brain thinks.
Feeling unworthy can usually generate self-sabotage.
The more you think you can't afford it, the worse it'll be.
Strong mindset identity will keep you afloat from drowning.
Working on your idendity and bringing value is essential.
Most of lottery winners end up being in bankruptcy.
They didn't have the mindset identity needed.
They've wasted the money on gifts.
Like they don't deserve it.
RULE 9
Money doesn't really change you, it reveals you.
Money isn't evil, it can actually change your whole life.
Money is an asset that can make things work even better.
People judge on everything that makes others feel insecure.
Everyone has its insecurities and doubts about themselves.
Money won't fix your insecurities, only you can fix them.
Working on yourself will help you overcome them.
Money is a magnifier, not a transformer.
Become the one you want to be first.
Be resourceful, confident, bold.
Money will amplify all of it.
RULE 10
Your network represents your net worth.
Networking with rich people isn't wealth guarantee.
Unless you pay them or bring them value in exchange.
Rich people value their time, they don't do anything for free.
If you give time to everyone, you'll be broke and exhausted.
There's only 24 hours in a day, your energy is limited.
Selectively give time to things that get you returns.
Pour into yourself becoming a valuable person.
Access is nothing if you don't bring value.
Focus on alignment, not chasing.
Mutual agreement is made.
Let's do business.
RULE 11
Investing money in yourself is prime.
When you bet on yourself you cannot lose.
Betting on yourself is the best way to make money.
The money invested in you will compound in the future.
You're the only asset that can 10x your income streams.
Skills from attending events cannot be taken from you.
Self investment can be reckless, but it's the safest bet.
If you don't take action, nothing is going to change.
You'll think about money the same way you've.
At the end of the day, you stay broke.
SEVEN BEHAVIOR SHIFTS
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INTRODUCTION
Whenever people hear millionaire by 23 on social media...
...they immediately create a story in their head.
They think people are born into money...
...and have easy connections.
That's why people believe that it could never be them...
...what people don't see is the struggle before the success.
You can work 3 jobs daily and still don't make it...
...ending up feeling useless and tired.
SHIFT 1
Stop performing wealth all the time.
When people get paid, they spend it on material things.
Buying cars and designer clothes...
...going to fancy restaurants and nightclubs.
They want to belong to a rich and successful community.
They want to feel important and look successful.
All the money spent could has been spent on real security.
Building assets, seeking knowledge, making investments.
Those elements could have paid you millions by today.
At least, they could have bought you freedom.
Looking rich doesn't change your mind, being secure does.
Start investing into things that compound...
...and make you financially free.
Stop thinking in the moment...
...submitting to what the world is buying.
Stop always looking for the new trend to spend money on.
The only one you should want to impress is yourself.
Each dollar you spend should be an investment.
Making sure you'll never go broke again.
Narrow down your expenses wisely.
SHIFT 2
Stop identifying yourself with your past.
Generally, the past is the proof of what they couldn't do.
Growing up with people who struggle and complain is hard.
Fatefully, you start thinking is what you're meant to be.
Your past explains you what you've been through...
...but doesn't define you.
It shows you the path you've walked...
...but you can decide to change it.
Who do you need to become to escape from that past?
If you're struggling, you'll play small with no risks.
If you're building legacy, you'll move differently...
...and be thinking from abundance with confidence.
Like any other business, you'll fail during the process.
It'll take time because you're not building small.
You made no money this month and it's fine.
Because, you don't want to make pennies.
You want to make life-changing money.
SHIFT 3
Stop waiting until you feel confident.
Confidence doesn't come before, it comes after.
It doesn't come while you're overthinking and planning.
It comes when you're pursuing and taking action.
Everything has to be done even if you're not ready.
Over time, it builds confidence because of evidence.
Moving being not ready will turn discomfort into a habit.
By repeating the process, you won't be scared anymore.
Then, you'll start building momentum and confidence.
Keep learning things long enough until you master.
Every time you feel anxiety, don't hold it.
Take action and go for it.
SHIFT 4
Stop believing that your thoughts are facts.
Often, you might be thinking you're not smart enough...
...you don't know anything about one thing or another.
You ask yourself : Who am I to do this?
I'm not capable of doing it...
...Have you seen my past...
...and the struggle you've been through?
Your brain is designed to keep you safe, not sucessful.
Creating doubts every time you step outside the box.
Don't let your brain tells you how to think and do things.
Because, thoughts are information, not instructions.
SHIFT 5
Stop trading your time like it is infinite.
Successful people in business aren't smarter than you.
They just move faster and work at much higher outputs.
Wealthy people don't work hard, they work at scale.
More content, bigger spendings, bigger budgets.
Hiring people and delegating to scale faster.
Cutting off all distractions from outside.
Time is the most valuable thing ever.
SHIFT 6
Stop wasting your energy to low return tasks.
Most people work multiple jobs, but still make no money.
They ruin their own health doing unprofitable things.
Stop losing time and energy explaining things over again.
Start building your vision with people who see it.
Your peak energy is an asset, don't waste it.
SHIFT 7
Stop being available to anybody all the time.
If you set boundaries, things will be much easier.
Being nice is having no boundaries to protect yourself.
People won't respect your time whatever they need you for.
They'll ask for help, keep abusing of your kindness.
Even in business, there's a time and place for it.
Otherwise, you're not doing what you should be doing.
Because, your mind isn't focused on what matters.
Stay focused on one thing at a time.
Better work, more income.
Stress free.
CONCLUSION
Things are happening for a reason.
Whatever you're going through, it's temporary.
Your struggle will make your story more powerful someday.
You've to start, even if you don't have all the answers.
Always start bold even if you're not ready or you're scared.
Eliminate all the distractions around you and go all in.
Knowledge cannot be taken away from you.
Start investing in yourself first.
CHALLENGING LIFE
If you want to move forward in life, apply those 5 rules :
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Stop Quitting.
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Stop Seeking Approval.
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Stop Chasing Investments.
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Stop Listening To Broke People.
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Stop Choosing Unsupportive Partners.
You don't know how much time you have. None of us do.
But, you decide how you live the time you've got.
If you're not happy with how you look, how your health is slipping, how your clothes don't fit, how your energy is gone, what do you do about it?
Most people aren't fixing the problem.
They slap on bandaids to cover internal wounds.
They put out little fires while the whole house is burning.
The truth is, if you don't change your habits, your nutrition, your training and your mindset nothing is going to change.
You'll still be here next year complaining about the same body, the same health, the same problems.
Stop waiting for the right time to take action.
All you have is now, so live in the moment.
If you want to do something exceptional, you've to be ok with being the exception, being different psychologically.
That means being misunderstood, criticized and even hated.
The single greatest skill you can develop is your ability to root for yourself when no one else will.
When you're on the come up, people behind you will envy you and those in front of you will feel threatened by you.
Let people bet against you while you bet on yourself being on the path of success. Time will do the rest.
Don't waste time explaining your decisions to people who've never built anything. The scoreboard will speak for itself.
Moving to another country is the fastest way to grow and to prove to yourself that you're capable of accomplishing great things.
Once you figure out how to deal with the streets, the language, the culture, the paperwork and the loneliness, life gets easier.
If you can handle being alone in a foreign country without help, you won't be afraid of building a new business from scratch.
You can land anywhere on earth and still make it work with confidence no matter where you're coming from.
You can rebuild a new circle of friends and make any challenge in your life feel smaller than what you've conquered so far.
If you want to build confidence, resilience, power in your life, book a ticket to go on a mission abroad and explore the world.
Life gets lighter once you've carried the weight of starting over.
Networking is key to succeed in business. Surround yourself with successful people who will make you grow and lift you up faster.
Being greedy to want the highest version of yourself is great.
If you've luxury tastes, booking for luxurious hotel rooms or buying expensive cars, it means that desire is the direction to follow.
If luxury calls you, it's not to tease you, it's to train you.
You don't need to change your tastes to fit your income, you rather need to raise your income to match your tastes.
Most people in business quit right before the breakthrough because they don't see invisible progress in the process.
Buying liabilities isn't a bad thing, sometimes it can be an asset.
Unfortunately, we're surface level human beings and most of the time, people judge a book by its cover.
People love wearing fancy things, it's undeniable.
In the social media era we're living in, people always want to show the world they're successful and making money.
But, are those fancy materials liabilities or real goods? It's up to you to make your own opinion about it.
Perception in business is everything. You get access to another world and get respect from rich people when you're at their level.
Exposing yourself to luxury will push you to make money and reach a level of wealth that you would've never imagined being possible in the past.
You either play the game by the rules or cry about it.
Once you've experienced the luxury lifestyle, once you see how it feels, you cannot unsee it anymore.
Beware of people you're spending your time and money with.
If they're not more successful and richer than you, you're going to end up downgrading your life and your results subconsciously to fit theirs.
Everytime you'll do something new, you're going to look stupid for being ignorant in the moment.
The started point to get to success is that every single person in this world doesn't start being good at everything.
Whether it's public speaking, being great at a business, being a leader or investing into financial markets, you've to feel and look stupid before you master something new.
If you deal with the uncomfort and handle the embarassment of feeling and looking stupid long enough until you do things many times repetitively and end up mastering it, you'll make a huge difference between you and others.
Pain can be seen as an asset sometimes.
Use your struggles as a fuel not excuses.
The struggles can teach you the strength.
The rejection can teach you the resilience.
The isolation can teach you the self confidence.
The circumstances of a situation don't define who you are.
Your reaction facing those circumstances will define who you are.
What almost feels like a deep punishment in your life is probably the preparation to the biggest breakthrough if you keep pushing through.
You're the author of your life.
Write a book that worth reading.
You're not learning bieng comfortable.
You need to learn lessons to grow in life.
It means taking risks and doing mistakes.
We only live once, there's no place for regrets.
Making mistakes will help you make better decisions.
We might have a life that worth talking about and worth living.
Stop wasting energy on haters. Focus on what really matters.
People will always be negative no matter what you do in your life.
When you spend your time worrying about what other people think, that energy is wasted.
Invest your energy into something positive that brings you joy, alignment and happiness.
The entire point of life is to pour so much into your own cup that it overflows into everything you touch.
THINK BROKE OR GROW RICH
You've seen the obvious differences between broke people and rich people such as : designer clothes, cars, houses, travels...
But, that's not what makes rich people actually rich.
Rich people do differently and it has nothing to do with morning routines or productivity hacks.
It's all about things that nobody talks about. It has something to do with how they think and how they decide.
Most people do the opposite of what successful people do.
The main differences are the followings :
On one hand, broke people, when they face a problem, they start overthinking, they get scared of failing and try to avoid every negative situations.
They ask themselves how they can have the same result without having to solve any kind of problems.
On the other hand, rich people understand that every problem they avoid, basically means leaving money on the table.
In that case, they don't want to avoid any problem. They want to get into solving the problem like a puzzle because to them, the more problems you solve, the more money you're going to be making.
When it comes to sales, they do multiple sales calls a day just to master the process that they're terrified of in stand of being passive about it.
The time horizon is completely different for rich people.
By attending masterminds, when you start your own business, you must be thinking : how much you can make monthly income every single month?
In the meantime, successful people in the room were thinking : where will I be in the next 5 years from now?
They look at the vision of their future because they understood that everything they're doing today, is going to pay off and going to get them the results they're looking for to get and multiply in the next 5 years.
As long as you keep focus on what's going on right now, you'll never get ahead in the future.
Broke people awould be like : OMG, can I afford rent this month?
Rich people are looking at their future and care about how much they can scale everyday.
When you stop thinking in months and start thinking in decades, that's where everything will change.
Sometimes, you need to zoom out a little bit in order to see and understand how you can get further in the future.
Broke people might invest in themselves, but they will buy $97 course and think it will make them $1 million ROI.
The reason why they keep being broke it's because they think how they can squeeze the most out of the smallest amount they can invest in.
On the opposite, wealthy people invest more money on themselves first of all. They understand that having big goals of making millions of dollars, doesn't allow them to be cheap about investing in themselves.
They would buy the $25K mastermind not for the mastermind. They would buy it to get access to the mindset of people that belong to the same mastermind and learn from them.
Some people who would buy the $25K mastermind, will unfortunately still be in the broke mindset because they want everything to be done as soon as they buy it. That's why they cannot go ahead thinking little in stand of mastering the same environment, mastering the mindset, getting information and asking right questions to people belonging to the mastermind.
Getting the information is a good thing, but the most important thing is the belief and the access you'll get from these people that you've to pay a lot of money for. The $97 course will teach a couple skills and will make you a couple of thousands dollars, but won't make you millions of dollars.
Rich people build cash machines, they don't just work harder.
When you work until 16 hours shifts and realize that people working way less make way more money, you understand that something's wrong.
Successful people understand that a business cannot run on one person only. They mastered delegation, having teams running the whole thing.
They got so amazing, so good at truly mastering how to build a system that will work for them instead of them working for the system to run.
That's how they don't burn out and stay in their creative mode. They're not consumed by the small things that probably drain the average person, making them not creative and not use their greatest skill coming from their brain.
Rich people understand that money is a flow and not a stock. It is supposed to be circulated, traded.
The money that is saved in the bank isn't working and growing. That's one of the reason why people saving money in the bank stay broke.
Rich people save a minimum of money to survive but make sure they reinvest the biggest part of their money in their business and think how they can turn the invested amount into something bigger. That's what keeps them always elevating, investing in themselves and stepping ahead.
When someone makes a $100K investment on a program, you might be thinking who would pay such an amount in a program. But, if you make a $500K ROI out of the $100K investment you just made buying a program that can teach you things you've never heard about before, it's a really good investment. Obviously, nothing is guaranteed. But, you've to take bets and risks in order to achieve big goals you have.
That's why money has to be circulated. The more you hold on it and don't want to spend anything, the longer you'll stay stuck and broke.
The judgment will always be the price of being successful.
Rich people understood that if they want to be successful, they're going to have people judging them all the time secretly seeking for their success.
Broke people want to be liked by everyone. They want to avoid all the critics and negative comments from everywhere.
Rich people are going to post their success and achievements no matter what, whether it's to flex or inspire people. Whatever people do, they're going to be judged anyway.
But they don't care because they understand that is the price of being successful and getting results that the average person isn't getting.
You have to master not caring about what people think about you and just focusing on how do you actually think of yourself and look at yourself about how you keep evolving, learning, investing in yourself and growing all the time.
So, if you do a mistake, at least you can learn from it and keep growing versus other people who are never even trying to do anything to make a mistake. That's why their life turns out being boring, taking no risks and staying broke basically.
You cannot have wealth and approval. You have to pick one. You better pick wealth over approval because you could care less about other people's approval . At the end of the day, approval has never paid bills.
Here's the shortcut plan you need to be focused on :
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Fix the problem you're going through :
Don't run from it.
Stop making excuses.
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Zoom out to see the bigger picture :
Where are you going to be in the next 5 years?
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Buy long-term proximity :
Find a coach or program to invest a lot of money in.
The next level is hiding in you investing that much.
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Build strong systems :
Find a way to delegate and automate.
Use your free time to scale and solve bigger problems.
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Start deploying capital :
Invest your capital in things that will multiply it.
Saving does not make you rich. Investing does.
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Get visible on social media :
Start posting, be out there, be seen.
Stop being so scared of being judged.
People will judge you anyway.
All those things are the reason why rich people keep being rich and get richer while broke people not willing to do those things are getting way more broke. Those capital points are simple but very uncomfortable. Broke people don't want to step out of their comfort zone. Your comfort zone is what keeps you broke. You need to spend years being uncomfortable so you can spend the next decades being financially free.
PERSPECTIVE SHIFT
Many business owners love saying that they're self made.
Being able to take a deep breath every day, already means that GOD got you. He made you no matter what you think.
When it comes to success, one thing you should always pray for is the ability to be able to handle the access, the freedom, the choices and all of the things that money come from. We all pray for overflow but we don't pray for ability to be able to handle it.
That's why we see so many people self-sabotage.
Success is very important but it's a huge responsability.
What a perspective shift is all about?
It means changing the way people see something.
Perspective shift helps you scale your business faster.
Like, you're changing someone's mind about something.
Making that individual see the world a different way.
Have you ever red a book or listened to a podcast?
You read or hear something, then you end up being like WOW...I've never thought about it this way.
From there, your mind is now shifted for the better.
You're like WOW...I've never seen it this way.
So, if you say "consistency is key", ain't nobody thinking WOW...you're so right because it sounds so obvious.
But, if you say "successful people master the boredom", people will be like OH WOW...they really do it.
Giving people a perspective shift about something is key to succeed in your business.
When you change somebody's mind about something, they're now getting bought into you.
When you learn something from somebody, people start to respect you because you're changing their mind.
When you change their mind, you change their life to a degree.
Obviously not from one sentence, but over time.
How can you change people's perspective in your industry?
By sending perspective shifts in a hook through a video.
You need punch lines to get their attention all the way through the video like a good quote they read and keep in mind.
You can tell ChatGPT to add a bar every 15-20 seconds especially at the beginning and the ending of the video as well.
At the end of the day, you want to leave it off and make people feel like a OH SHIT...THAT'S SO RIGHT.
You'll notice that you did good because people will pick one sentence and then will comment about it like THIS ONE IS FIRE...
ENVIRONMENT SHIFT
One thing successful entrepreneurs understand better than others is how the environment you're living in can change your life for the better.
The country you live in, the places you visit, the people that you're around will always have a big impact either in your success or your failure.
Once you change your environment, your brain normalizes it. When you come from a small city, you aren't used to see fancy things everyday.
The more frequent you get in these things, whether it's renting it for a day, or you've friends who actually have these things and you get to experience it, the more your brain is going to look at it as the first time, you're going to react like it's a big deal, because it feels amazing and it's a privilege to have these things nowadays.
But, after a while, you almost become numb to it and you forget that this is such a big deal. So, your brain starts making it normal.
When your brain starts making something normal, it will almost manipulate itself to believe that you have it too.
That's the whole point of exposing yourself and changing your environment in order to see what's actually possible.
When you travel the world and see people out of your home country making at least $10,000 a month, you realize the importance of environment shift. You start getting around these people and realizing they're very similar to you. They're not smarter, they're not more talented either. They just chose paths that pay them a lot of money, stick with one thing and went all in on it.
Pay your way to get into communities that will make you successful in business. Go to meet these people through programs, events, siminars because they'll suddenly raise the amount of money they were making from $10K a month to $50K a month in a short period of time.
The longer you hang out with successful people, the faster you realize you can get the same results if you do what they're doing.
That's how the delusion comes, it doesn't happen suddenly.
If you've never been exposed to people making a lot of money in a luxury environment, your brain can only comprehend whatever it actually sees.
If your brain has never seen that before, how could it be delusional about something it has never experienced before?
When you're delusional, you've to change your environment in order to be delusional.
For it to be normal, your brain needs to look at as a normal thing first, because if it's normal it's achievable.
There's something called : cognitive dissonance.
Initially, you feel almost like you're out of place wondering yourself if you do belong here.
It happens to a lot of people, when they're in environments where everyone's making a lot of money and they're not making that much money.
Feeling this way, you might want to go back to your friends who are at the same level than you.
But then, you remind yourself that you're facing this psychological discomfort because you're raising your standards to another whole higher level.
Your brain is going to feel like none of this is comfortable and your emotions are going to challenge you really hard.
That's when self-sabotage is going to come at you. But when it comes, you need to stay in the places that make you uncomfortable, like why are you not where I want to be at...and this could be your new reality if you do things you should be doing that you've learnt from rich people with discipline and consistency.
You're going to be experiencing discomfort, but just remember that your brain is trying to pull you to something comfortable because things aren't working yet and your brain wants to get some rest, it wants to get back to old habits and comfort.
Your job isn't to listen to what your brain is telling you to do, your job is to tell your brain what to do and how to act accordingly to any situation whether it's a good situation or a bad situation. You're the only one master of your brain, don't let your emotions dicted by your brain overwhelm you in order to get to where you want to go no matter whatever your brain is saying. Your brain will thank you later for making a lot of money by not listening to what it said.
Location is major key to achieve success. It can strategically accelerate your business growth. For example, the city of Dubaï literally exposes you to luxury all the time. People out there think about money everyday. You see luxury cars such as Ferrari, Lamborghini, McLaren, Mercedes, BMW, Rolls-Royce and luxury homes...like it's something completely normal because it actually feels normal out there. Almost everyone's watch it's half a million dollars worth and this has become a standard in Dubaï.
Once you start getting around all of this, at the beginning you feel poor. It raises your standards about life and money. You start realizing that there is way more money and success to be made. Immediately, you start thinking about scaling your business even faster and higher, you feel hype and want to achieve big things.
Is it worth to leave all your family, all your friends, all the things you're comfortable with, to come to a city where you don't know anybody, where the culture is different, where you feel uncomfortable, but then suck that pain all in and roll with it working hard and not letting yourself being distracted to achieve your goals and everything you've planned to achieve?
The answer is : Absolutely yes, it is worth it.
Dubaï is one of the city that exposes you to so much high level network, a lot of money and a lot of opportunities. You meet ambitious people who want to hustle and grind with a common goal which is to make a lot of money. It's the kind of motivation that pushes you to get at the same level.
Being around high achievers daily will always make you hungrier, it will push you to go higher and dream bigger in your life.
You cannot get your big goals worrying about small little pennies that you're trying to save. It's impossible.
If you have big goals, keep your eyes on them. Staying focused on your little things will distract you from getting big things in life.
The most powerful thing about changing your environment is actually that you start believing what's possible.
Remember, the longer you hang around successful people, the more you realize they're smart but not that special. They're just as ordinary human beings as you are. They can mess up, they can be goofy, they can be lazy but their mindset is shifted to the right direction.
They aren't better than you as a human being but maybe they've information that you don't have yet, maybe they've done habits that you haven't done yet neither. That's why they're in a position that you aren't in yet. This makes you realize that you can have the same experiences and still can make it work.
Your brain is now being like :
"OK, this is normal, this is achievable, I can reach it. I see those people, the steps they went through and what they did. I can do the same thing, there's a roadmap I can follow that basically gives me the hope I need to get to where I want to be."
If you've hope, you've delusion and if you've delusion you'll make things happen when nobody else believed in you.
Get yourself involved in communities of successful individuals who will teach you how to make money with learning skills about investing and financial markets.
If there's an event hosted by a successful person, get yourself the opportunity to book a flight and show up to learn from it and see what the next level is all about in order to make your vision about success even bigger.
Once you expose yourself to luxury, you start seeing a new reality. You want to upgrade and learn more skills until it feels normal.
You don't want to downgrade back to your old reality. The most hurtful thing that you can do is experience a reality and then, downgrade it.
You want to start visiting and experiencing luxury places while still being grounded and not overspending on things that you really cannot afford, while still being realistic about where you are but using it as an aspiration on where you can actually end up once you get to your goals.
You want to observe without having the pressure to buy it all. So, when you walk into a luxury designer store, it's ok to look around and shop without really shopping just with your eyes to see the prices and understand the budget without having to buy because you don't have to buy anything if you don't want to.
There's no pressure, no shame neither for you not wanting to buy something or for you not being able to afford something yet. Use it as an aspiration for something you look forward to buying in the future once you achieve your goals.
Your environment programs you whether you like it or not.
Is it programming you for failure or for success?
Is it programming you to think that $1 million isn't a lot of money?
Some people in this world are literally making $1 million a day and here we're thinking $1 million a year or a month is hard to make.
Money on its own is just paper. We give it value, so it becomes a valuable tool that can set you free and give you access to a whole different world.
Make sure your value and your ability to make great things in life is unmatched if you want people to respect you and pay you in consequence.
You shouldn't be exchanging your time for money on a daily basis because it won't reveal your true self as a human being.
People will see your value only if you show them your willingness and determination to be the most valuable person in the room.
If they know you're going to give them an insane amount of return on their investment, they'll be ready to pay you the amount you truly deserve.
Knowing that, you start learning skills that will make you so different, so unique, so valuable. Don't forget to be very intentional with your environment.
Search for a community, an environment where high level people that are talking about money, businesses, investing, helping each other, going viral on social media and learning how to monetize from it. Stop pocket penny watching, looking for how to save a couple of dollars and start manifesting for millions of dollars.
Saving $2 for a coffee bought from a cheaper coffee shop than another won't change your life. What actually is going to change your life for the better are millions of dollars you should be focused on making, is you becoming so skillful, so valuable that people want to pay you the big bucks without you having to save one or two dollar for a coffee.
STOP CHASING NONSENSE
When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.
Everyone's chasing what they think they should want.
You should stop and let what you actually need to find you.
Constant chasing requires :
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Fighting against natural flow and timing.
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Forcing outcomes that aren't meant for you.
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Exhausting yourself pursuing the wrong goals.
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Missing opportunities because you're too focused ahead.
Strategic stopping requires :
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Creating space for better opportunities.
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Releasing attachment to specific outcomes.
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Trusting that right things come at right times.
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Focusing energy on alignment over acquisition.
When you chase everything desperately, you often push away what would naturally come to you.
When you stop chasing what doesn't fit, you create space for what does which means :
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No passive waiting required.
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No giving up on goals needed.
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No stopping all action necessary.
Sometimes, the best thing to do is stop running towards the wrong destination before it's too late.
When you pause the chase, you can finally hear the right opportunities calling your name.
While everyone's exhausting themselves pursuing what they think they want, you can create space for what actually belongs in your life.
GREED IS THE NEW AMBITION
Greed is one of the reasons why humanity actually survives.
Greed, in a good way, allows you to become successful in life.
There are two categories of greedy people :
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Those who want things obsessively until get them.
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Those who let things go believing it's already theirs.
When you want more in life, one thing is happening :
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Your brain will trigger dopamine in the pursuit.
Getting rich, making $1 million might not make you happy. It's the process of getting in that position and the achievement at the end of it that will make you feel happy and satisfied. Progress keeps people alive and excited to get more and go further in life. The day you stop wanting more in life, your brain will shut down into survival mode. It's the worst feeling because there is no abundance and you start acting from scarcity.
But, when you want more knowing the different steps in this life to achieve these things, your brain will keep working, keep doing something useful. Instead of just working a 9 to 5 job that just drains you and not going to get you anywhere in this life. Successful people end up being rich because they're greedy to get what they want until they actually get it.
The biggest lie that society teaches us about wanting more is that when you want more, you're basically not enough and that's why you want more. As soon as someone, especially women, wants more and becomes ambitious, people always put a scenario on her, asking what happened to women sitting at home, raising kids, taking care of the household, nurturing...but if a woman wants to do that, she can still do it and still be greedy wanting to be more financially free, wanting more abundance, more independance, more beauty...it's not one or the other. When you're greedy, you want it all and nothing has to be left on the table.
Ambitious women are looked at as masculine. They're so high maintenance, such a headache that no man will want to deal with all of that. But in reality, a true kind, ambitious and successful man will always want to have an ambitious woman that also wants more and doesn't want to settle by his side. If you settle for getting whatever you want to get in this life, you're also probaly settling about a partner wanting him to feel like he hit the jackpot being with you.
Being content is actually marketed in society to keep people being predictable, controllable and under matrix mercy. The society doesn't want us to think out of the box. It wants us to be predictable in order to know how to deal with us and know what to actually do with us.
Why does society not want people to be greedy?
Why does society want people to settle especially women?
For example, a woman who is 30+ years old and not married might be judged because the society teaches us that something is wrong with it.
Nowadays, women don't want to settle until they find the right person to be with or until they have millions of dollars liquid cash in their bank account to do not depend on a man to get everything they want in life. Greedy people, man or woman, don't want anything to be left on the table.
Being greedy, wanting more in life and not settling for crumbs is what will get you to where you want to be.
The majority of people in your circle will want you to settle, whether it's your family or your friends.
They want you to be like anyone else, working a 9 to 5 job so they can tell people they know about.
The majority of people want you to be grateful as you're making between $2K, $5K or $10K a month while many unfortunate people are dying and struggling in many other countries. But, a healthy and smart person, the question you need to ask yourself is how you can make more money to serve more people because as a matter a fact, money is power. You cannot help someone else doing something if you cannot help yourself.
Focus on yourself first, making money and being greedy wanting more in order to serve and protect your kids and people you love in the future.
You can change the trajectory of your life being greedy enough to change other's people life as well.
Every major breakthrough in history came from someone who refused to to accept that a thing is enough for the world or the society.
Think about Tesla, Apple, Amazon... even back in time with the person who created the light, air conditioning...those people refused to accept the world as it was without doing something to actually make the world a better place to live in in the future. They wanted the better for the humanity and made sure to still go ahead, be greedy and want more out of this life when everybody at that time, were calling them crazy and delusional.
The psychology of dissatisfaction fuels your creativity and your ability to innovate in whatever you put your mind to.
When you're dissatisfied with in your life, you can still be grateful about it. But, when you're dissatisfied with the money you're making, with how much money your friends are making, the house you're living in, the car you're driving, then you end up wanting more and being greedy.
When you want something, not only want but desire or crave for something, there's a part in your brain that activates your creativity. You become an innovative person that will find a way to make things happen whatever it takes.
There's a difference between :
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Being greedy just for the sake of being greedy.
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Being greedy for the sake of growth.
The second one is the healthier version where people are well-attentioned wanting to grow as a person, they want to accomplish more because they enjoy the progress along the journey. They don't want to achieve success only for them but also to help people around them.
Greed : Taking values without creating for others.
Growth : Getting more while changing people's life.
When you're able to make millions of dollars in a business, you create more jobs, more oppportunities, more communities where people are learning skills and tips to achieve the same results. You end up inspiring people who went through tough issues in life and give them a hope to get themselves out of the bad situation they were stucked in for a long period of time. Some of them were only relying on someone else to provide for them, but thanks to lessons and perspectives you're giving to them, they realize that they also have the power to succeed and provide for themselves.
Many greedy people wanting more in life, have quit their 9 to 5 job and end up making 6 or 7 figures on social media every year creating impact and value for others and changing their life showing them the blueprint to achieve big results, how to scale up in their businesses in a smart strategic way.
Impact and value can do a big difference when you're greedy for the sake of growth in your life.
Be someone that create in stand of just being a person that consumes information.
When we're greedy and want more, it's not to prove people they're wrong, it's not to prove you're worthy, it's not to flex...it's for your own growth and sake because you want to get that abundance for yourself and share it with people looking for the same thing as well.
You shouldn't care about people's opinion about you being rich or poor, about you being successful or not. The only thing you should care about is you actually being successful for yourself and your family, wondering if you have millions of dollars liquid cash in your bank account for yourself not to flex on others but to secure your own self in the future, knowing what this money can bring you value if it's well-invested.
So, in stand of wanting to show people how worthy you are, you should ask yourself how far you can go in this world, how far you can achieve of achievements to show people you can do it with the right blueprint and the right mindset that can make you become successful financially.
You also want to use that desire to create more opportunities, more jobs, more impact, more value. In this way, people will respect you more for what you do for them. They'll look up to you and end up buying from you. You'll be an inspiration for many people and next generations who will remember you as someone who has contributed to their future success.
Desire isn't greed. Desire is God given. Make sure every single ounce of potential that you were born with, with a lot of God given gifts, can actually make you millions of dollars if you're not settling for what the world is telling you to do, if you're not settling for being lazy, for living a basic and boring life that you're unsatisfied and unfulfilled with. But, everyone around is telling you to be grateful with what you have, they don't want you to be a troublemaker challenging the norms because it's more fulfilling, more fun, more exciting.
Every time you wake up, make sure you live a life looking forward to being adventurous, travelling the world, discovering new people and cultures that can actually make you grow in life. Surround yourself with people that will teach you how to thrive making millions of dollars.
THE FIVE ESSENTIALS
You cannot be rich without knowing those five essential points.
Many people are ignorant about them and stay broke.
Be part of those who take action to change their life.
People you surround yourself with will either lift you up or hold you down. Build connections with like-minded people willing to grow and succeed.
If you think wealth is out of reach, it will always be. You need to believe it's possible before you can achieve it.
Time is one asset you can't get back. Spend it wisely on things that create value and have a positive impact in your life.
If you play it safe, you'll stay broke. Take smart decisions to move forward in life. You'll do mistakes in the process because risks always exist, but those mistakes will always make you grow in the future.
Most people don't understand how money works. Educate yourself on investing, saving and budgeting.
WHAT HURTS / WHAT HEALS
POSITIVITY / NEGATIVITY
If you spend time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away.
If you spend time making a garden, they'll come to you.
Focusing on yourself will make things come at you.
We attract based on who we are, not what we want.
Don't chase, attract and start thinking this way.
UNLOCK YOUR FULL POTENTIAL
Success isn't a quick race, it's a marathon :
It requires patience, persistence and trust in the process.
Get comfortable being uncomfortable :
Growth happens outside your comfort zone.
Nurture your mind with knowlegde :
Read books and learn something new to grow your mindset faster.
Surround yourself with winners :
People around you will shape your mindset and future.
Never let failure define you :
Learn from it, grow from it and rise even stronger.
Make your own choices :
Only you can decide what's good for you.
Learn how to say "NO" :
Protect youself from distractions and negative people.
Master your mornings :
Make sure you start off your day full of energy.
Build discipline :
Go hit the gym to build confidence and motivation.
FROM AWARENESS TO FULFILLMENT
Self awareness is key to success.
When you teach something, you learn it twice.
You don't level yourself up in life if you don't surround yourself with people that do better than you.
In the society we're living in, cash is king.
Money is the key of dreams that allows you to be free.
What's the biggest difference between poor and rich?
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Poor people BUY with money.
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Rich people INVEST with money.
PERSONAL BRANDING + MARKETING SALES = SUCCESS.
If you're willing to build a business, make sure that your idea is well-designed in your mind and ready to dive into the market.
The distance between dreams and reality is discipline.
When you work for others, you're at their mercy.
They own your work, so they own you.
Your creative spirit is squashed.
The fear of having to swim on your own keeps you poor.
Instead, you should have a bigger fear of what will happen if you remain dependent on someone's else.
Your goal in life should be based on ownership.
When it's yours, it's your risk to lose.
You fell more motivated, more creative, more alive along the way.
The ultimate power in life is to be completely self reliant.
Time is the most expensive value we have in life.
You can't get it back no matter how the circumstances look like.
You always get what you work for if you do things in the right way.
A small idea can lead to big changes.
Big changes can lead to a better world.
Dream with ambition and lead with conviction.
Your happiness shoudn't be taken by the others.
Be mindful of people you surround yourself with.
Learn how to turn knowledge into practicality.
Isn't about who you are, it's about who you want to become.
Don't ever let the fear of losing be greater than your excitement of winning and achieving your goals.
Nobody gets rich working for someone else, that's a fact.
Get out of your comfort zone by doing what most people don't do.
You don't need to know everything to get started.
Many successful people have failed before being successful.
When you're indecisive making decisions, you take any decisions.
The only one failure is when you stop trying.
In school, we don't get taught how to invest in ourselves.
Investing in yourself is the best investment you could make.
Don't be afraid of making mistakes. Be eager to learn and grow.
Mistakes are part of the journey as long as you learn from them and keep moving forward to achieve your goal and become successful.
Don't hope for getting things more than you work for it.
Nobody sees the work put in behind closed doors on a daily basis.
If there's a vision, there's a way.
Align your life with GOD's vision.
Always stay true to who you're and what you're good at.
What you're doing is probably already done by someone else.
Be humble with your creativity and graceful with your success.
I love the idea of not being what people expect me to be.
Stay focused on yourself and watch your life get better.
Success is a science. It's calculable and measurable.
Everybody has a different talent and a different mindset.
We're used to look at someone's else's talent we don't have.
All the energy we spend on thinking, wishing, being jealous or envious of anybody is energy we're taking away from ourselves.
Turn your struggles into a teaching and learning experience.
When nothing goes right, go left because nobody else will.
In order to be the best, learn how to deal with the worst.
Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.
The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life.
Actions speak louder than words, especially when words can't be trusted nowadays because people can lie.
Money doesn't buy happiness but either being broke.
Success isn't based on circumstances.
Success is based on resourcefulness.
Make the most of your limitation beliefs.
Embrace your struggles and fuel your hustle.
Life is always in the making, so trust in the process.
Believing in yourself when nobody did can take you to places nobody believed you could even get to.
How much we can do depends on how much we think we can do.
Life doesn't change until you do.
Stay focused on abundance and discipline.
I don't believe in cutting back expenses.
I believe in making more money.
Manifest your dreams.
Mind your own business.
Small wins help to build momentum.
Confidence is feeling free to be who you're regardless what everyone else say.
Confidence is believing that you're enough and knowing that you aren't better than anyone else.
Confidence is understanding that we're all trying our best to be better knowing that nobody's perfect.
Nobody can do you better than you.
Give space to what's coming up next.
LIVING OFF YOUR PASSION
You don't know what your passion is? How do you find it?
You find it by paying attention to yourself.
You also find it by listening to what makes you the most enthusiastic when you think about it.
You can make a living out of your passion.
You need to find a way to do it and be willing to work hard for it.
Nobody can say how long the journey will last.
However, if you're truly passionate about something and you dedicate enough time and effort to it, you'll eventually succeed.
Nobody is better than another because of their job or career, or who they are, or what they have.
It's all about who you are and how you treat people around you.
What you say about people says more about yourself.
Accepting that everyone is different in their own way is the key.
Stay focused on bettering yourself instead of being judgmental.
Whatever you're doing, just prove to yourself that the thing you want to do is build around that mindset.
It's easier said than done. But, what can be said can be done.
The problem is that a lot of people have this terrible seed planted in their head from society and teachers saying that certain passions are unrealistic.
So, when you actually ask someone : what's your passion?
They know it instantly, but they instantly also write it off because they've been told that is doesn't make enough money, there's not enough jobs in the market, so it's not realistic. Then, they move on to plan F and wonder why they hate their lives.
ENTREPRENEURSHIP WORLD
As an entrepreneur in the digital age, you've to be comfortable with being seen and being heard.
There's no other way around it.
You're your brand. You've to be comfortable in your own skin.
Whatever shame is holding you back, you're going to have to face it head on and deal with it.
Too many people are terrified of people's judgement, about what people are going to say and think about them.
They allow shame to govern them and keep them small.
Shame manifest itself in the subtlest way.
Confront yourself, your fears and your strengths.
Lean on your strengths and grow from your mistakes.
If you can take the lessons from each and every misstep and misfortune in your life, use your story to empower and educate other people.
You've no idea upper limits of much more valuable and influential that just made you.
Don't be a coward, the world is already full of them.
If you want to be an entrepreneur in the digital age, in order to stand out, you need to allow yourself to be seen and heard.
Only then, people will be able to know you and trust you.
People will want what any service you'll be able to offer.
4 TRUTHS ABOUT SUCCESS
It's because I respect you that I tell you the truth.
Sometimes it hurts. You may be robbing yourself.
Or understand that I am doing this for your good.
It will not change the fact that it's true.
On the other hand, the way you take it can change your life.
Truth #1 :
- If you're poor today, it's excusable.
- If you're poor tomorrow, it's your fault.
It has never been easier than today to make money online.
With all the quality training and information you have at your disposal, it is easy to get started in e-commerce, affiliate marketing, stock market, cryptocurrencies or real estate.
The real barrier is the fear of failure.
Truth #2 :
- It's all about sacrifice, work, and willpower.
Most people are blinded by the success of others.
They only see success.
They don't see :
No, successful people are not always "lucky".
If you wait to win money playing lottery or casino, in 99% of cases, you only enrich those who sell you this dream!
If you hope to bet once on the crypto that will explode, you will enrich other crypto investors.
Truth #3 :
- To succeed, you have to take your responsibilities.
Many people blame others :
"It's the tax authorities who take everything..."
"It's the crisis..."
"It's the billionaires fault..."
How many times have I heard this kind of surreal conversation :
"I'm done with my boss, I'm paid with a slingshot."
"You should try to ask him for a raise."
If you are not happy in a situation, you must give yourself the means to get out of it.
Truth #4 :
- The poor relies on hope.
- The rich relies on mathematics.
Financially, poor people say to themselves :
"I hope inflation goes down."
"I hope I won't lose my job."
"I hope I get a promotion."
"I hope to arrive healthy in retirement to finally enjoy my life."
Successful people implement concrete actions that will make them even richer in the future.
They don't wait for an outdoor event to come and make the rain and shine in their lives. They just make it happen.
Take back control over your live.
SOURCE OF INSPIRATION
Why is it important to nurture your mind?
80% of success in business is about mindset.
You become who you surround yourself with on a daily basis.
Make sure you hang out with people who can teach you how to become successful.
If I look at who you're following on Instagram or YouTube, I would probably find celebrities, entertainers, influencers...
Keep in mind that, what you sow is what you reap.
I could get an idea of your results in life just by looking at the content that you're consuming daily.
There's nothing wrong about watching funny contents sometimes.
But, if entertainment is all what your mind is consuming, you cannot evolve and grow in your life.
Success is about following people who are positively impacting your life as well.
There's one statement that's been acknowledged throughout history : "As you think so shall you become".
Like William James once said : "Human beings can alter their lives by altering the attitudes of their minds".
So, how particular are you about what you're consuming and the effects that it has on your mind?
As you think so shall you become, it's the secret to success but it's also the secret to failure.
If you think positively, if you've a vision for your future, which means you've a concrete goal that you're going to work towards, then you'll achieve it.
But, if you don't have a vision, you end up with thoughts of loss, of confusion, of despair, of anxiety...That's what you will become.
If you think nothing mindlessly, scrolling on TikTok all day long, then you'll become nothing.
You're not going to grow in either direction.
The beautiful thing about being alive today is that you and I have free access to gold information.
The information that we can access is unlimited on the Internet. It can help us create real riches in our lives.
If you want to be successful, you've to develop the willingness and desire for self-education.
Standard education will get you standard results.
Ask yourself those questions :
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Do I really want to become successful?
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How many books have I read this year?
There's a bunch of books on :
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How to become a great leader?
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How to thrive in relationships?
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How to have optimal health?
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How to become confident?
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How to invest your money?
But, people don't read them, not because they can't read but because they choose not to.
It sounds like an oxymoron when I hear people saying that they want to be successful but choose to not eduate themselves about how to become successful. They aren't willing to invest in self-education and expect things to happen suddenly. Or, they aren't willing to invest their money into different businesses to make more money.
Most of those topics are available for free on the Internet. There's a lot that you can learn for free, but maybe it'll require you spend some time and money on a book or a seminar or a course. In my opinion, that's going to be the best money that you've ever spent. The 1st investment you should make is to invest in your self-education, you must be your own priority. I'm always willing to invest my money into my self-education.
I'm convince that what I'm learning and the content that I'm consuming is going to serve me, to help me achieve my goals in order to change my life forever. It's going to help me to make decisions, to notice opportunities. So, don't be afraid to invest money into self-education.
Being a hustler, a hard worker isn't enough. There're still people who are extremely hard workers and yet still struggling to pay their bills.
Always work harder on yourself than you do at your job.
It's easy to spend 8h a day working on your job, but how much time are you investing into yourself? into learning? into growing? into developing new skills?
Your job is only going to help to provide you with making a living and paying your bills.
But, your personal growth is what's going to help you to grow and become a better version of yourself, to help you to reach financial freedom.
You might feel like you don't have time to do all of this.
Research has shown that most people spend at least an hour a day in their cars. You could use that time to listen to podcasts to educate your mind.
The majority of people who've been successful in life, have spent their spare time reading books as a daily routine just like brushing their teeth or taking a shower. They've succeeded because they were willing to learn how to succeed by investing into self-education. They didn't doubt themselves.
You can learn from your own experiences in life or you can learn from the experiences of others. If you're willing to learn on your own experiences, then your learning is going to be limited. But, if you open yourself up from the experiences of others, then what you can learn is virtually limitless.
There's nothing that you can't learn how to do.
One book can save you 5 years of trial and error.
The laws of physics state are based on the fact that for every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction.
This is in alignment with the law of cause and effect.
When you see someone who's happy and successful, you should study him/her because happiness and success are the effects.
You've to understand what's the cause. It also means that success doesn't happen by chance.
You've to take action to see the effects that you've to create the cause to see those effects.
If you want your life to change, then you've to change.
Don't wait for your environment or circumstances to change.
The only way you can change is by changing your mindset.
Look for people who can help you shift your mind into something positive, to become aware of what's going up in your mind because you'll notice that there's a lot of self-sabotage limiting beliefs, things aren't going to be conducive for your personal goals.
Remember that there's only such thing as self-modivation because if you've tried to change people, you realize that it's not possible. You can't change someone, because they'll only change when they've decided to change.
You can have access to a bunch of mentors/motivational speakers by clicking on the "Mentorship" button above the page.
BACK IN THE DAYS
The key to success is based on establishing a good strategy.
Let's talk about one of the greatest strategists : Sun Tzu.
His famous book ART OF WAR is considered to be one of the greatest book on military strategy ever written.
Talking about battle tactics and qualities of a great leader.
His timeless advises are invaluably priceless and useful.
He promoted concepts such as :
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Leading by example, not by force.
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Better doing nothing than acting out of fear.
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Never make decisions angrily.
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The importance of morality.
WIND. FOREST. FIRE. MOUNTAIN.
Those keywords are referring to the following sentences :
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Immovable as the mountain.
The morality is that you don't have to think of winning, but you've to merely make your mind to never let an opportunity slip by.
6 WAYS TO UNDERSTAND YOUR NEEDS
Why is it so important to understand your needs?
This is valuable because a new level of awareness will :
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Enable you to get to know yourself better.
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Allow you to make better decisions in your life.
The more you understand yourself, the more likely the decision you make is going to be in the best interest of your higher self. Rather than making decisions out of fear. You will make decisions with a more complete understanding of yourself and therefore provide more context to the decisions you make. There are truly benefits to understand what your needs are.
When I talk about needs, I talk about needs of the personality and these needs are far from reaching and complex. When you start a business and get great results making great amount of money, you want to take a break and reap the fruit of your labor because you've worked so hard to create financial freedom and start thinking that it's time to live the life that you want to live and do the things that you've always wanted to do. But, successful people always want more. They want to build other businesses to make even more money all the time : The entrepreneurial spirit.
Since the pandemic, the need for connection is exacerbated because we've been isolated for a long time. Now, we've the awareness and with that awareness, we can make decisions. As an entrepreneur, we've the desire to go into the next thing but when it comes to awareness, we start to think about : Do I want to pursue this?
Instead of going through the hustle and time commitment of building a business, you could just go ahead and meet your need for connection in other ways and deeper connections by investing your time into relationships. So, you could skip the whole thing of starting a business, spending years of your life occupied with this and go straight to the need that you're trying to meet. Does that mean that because you've identified what your needs are for any given goal that you're not going to pursue that goal? Absolutely not. There are always other goals and needs that we want to meet in life. With all of that being said, you can now make a decision on what to do next rather than being unconscious.
Sometimes, the goals that you're creating in your life, the things that you're trying to pursue, come at a significant cost to yourself and your family. Many people who have been trying to create success for many years, want to prove to themselves that they can be successful and then, keep staying focused on creating and building new things. So, they don't have time to be present with their family and even don't have time for self-care being so busy trying to create success in any way possible in order to meet this need for significance.
Ask yourself :
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What my needs to reach my goals are?
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What my ambitions in life are?
The framework of 6 human needs created by Tony Robbins :
We all want love but sometimes we settle for connection because love can be too scary. You can maybe relate to that especially through past relationships if you've been hurt or betrayed by a lover, a friend or a family member. This is the need that everyone will meet soon or later.
If you look at nature, everything is constantly growing. The tree in the park looks the same today as it did yesterday and will probably look the same again tomorrow. You can't see that it's growing but it's growing and the moment it stops growing, it starts dying. We aren't different, if your relationship isn't growing it's dying, if your business isn't growing it's declining, if you aren't growing then you're going to feel like hell. There's always a part of you that wants to grow. If you want something to continuously improve and grow, you have to give it the time of day. The reason why we want to grow is that we have something to contribute beyond ourselves and this leads us to the last need which is the need for contribution.
This is the need for surprises, adventures, problems... Obviously, I don't think that having a problem is a good thing but a problem is really just an unexpected surprise to challenge ourselves. We all have the desire of adventure, some people will try different foods, different restaurants, watch different kinds of movies, other people love to travel and discover new cultures for example. Everyone meets it in a different way. There comes the need for significance.
This is the need to feel certain that tonight there's going to be food on the table, the need to feel certain that when I'm driving on the highway, I need to feel that the car in the opposite lane is unlikely to crash into me. Otherwise, I wouldn't get my car and get on the street. But, when you have too much certainty, what happens? When you know what's going to happen, when it's going to happen and where it's going to happen, you get bored. So, that leads us to the second need which is the need for variety.
This is the need to feel important, to feel special and unique. Some people will meet this need by becoming more successful earning more money, some people will do it by being the most spiritual person in the room. You can also meet that need by looking in a certain way, you know when you have a certain look that's very noticeable and distinguishable like pop colors clothes or tattoos for example. There's empowering and disempowering ways to meet your needs. One of the quickest way to meet your need for significance is through violence. If there's a person who's feeling very insignificant in his/her life and doesn't have these tools to help him/her understand himself/herself, sometimes he/she will resort to violence. When someone takes a gun and put it to someone's else head, how significant does this person feel? On a level of 1 to 10, instantly 10 this person feels significance because when there's a gun on your head, it doesn't matter who you're and what you're doing, you just drop everything and give that person 100% attention. The person pointing the gun meets that need of significance at a very high level even though, we would call it a disempowering way to meet that need.
This is the need to give beyond yourself there's a part of you, it's your higher self that wants to give and contribute. Whether it's giving a homeless person some cash or volunteering your time at a shelter or giving a Christmas gift to someone you love. The greatest gift is given to the giver not the receiver, this is what life is about or at least should be. It comes from your higher self, that's why it feels so good. We're all meant to love and to give.
15 WAYS TO THINK ABOUT MONEY
1. Money is a tool to move value across space and time.
For most people money is emotional, it’s personal. Your reality changes once you realize that money isn’t different than a car or a vacuum cleaner. It serves a specific purpose. If the car takes you from A to B, money takes value from A to B. You extract value at your job and then transport that value to a different place at a different time. The more you think about it, the more you realize how true and simple this actually is.
Money is similar to a traditional car. It will take you wherever you wish as long as you’re a good enough driver.
2. Use money to buy yourself peace to find happiness.
You can’t get to happiness without getting to peace first! When they say money can’t buy happiness, they fail to mention that money can buy you peace of mind. Peace comes from a lack of stress and worry. When we feel safe, our future is predictably positive and we worry less, because we are no longer worry about what we are going to eat tomorrow, about where we are going to sleep or if a tiger hides in the bushes. Money buys that, because these are money problems. Once you’ve bought your safety, you’re left with the non-money problems :
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How do I feel about myself?
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How do I feel about my relationships?
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What do I need to do in life to feel fulfilled?
Once you buy yourself peace, you will reach happiness.
3. Broke is temporary, poor is forever.
There’s a difference between being broke and being poor.
Broke : You have no money.
Poor : You can't get out of the "no money" situation.
Poor people accept that their reality is permanent and unchangeable. They teach their children that they're poor and destined to be poor as well. It’s the man, the system, the universe that keeps them to think that unique way. People who escape poverty are those who acknowledge that they’re currently broke, but there are options of changing that. They don’t believe broke is permanent. They believe change is up to them, even if this means pushing harder than others who maybe got dealt a better hand to begin with.
The broke seek to better himself, he wants tomorrow to be slightly better than today and he's willing to work for it, he looks at the process from a gradual perspective. The poor only thinks of the world in black and white terms. His wish is to be rich because he doesn’t want to be poor anymore.
Relisten to this point as many times as you need until you’re confident you’re actually broke, not poor. So, you can begin to move up.
4. There’s no such thing as a money cap.
There’s no limit to money or success in this world. Growing up, for some reason we were thought that there’s always a limit to money, on how much a company could pay an employee. It comes from the idea of being paid by the hour and the fact that there’s a limit to the number of hours you can work in a day, you end up realizing that you trade your time for a paycheck. This is factory-based remuneration and brainwashing.
The moment we have transitioned on the other side of the curtain, the truth was revealed to us : money is unlimited. They have a printer that goes BRRRRRR whenever the market asks for more. Innovation is unlimited as well. Everything done today will be done faster, cheaper and better tomorrow. Money is an infinite resource because as you’ll find out in the last point on the list that money isn’t actually real, it’s something the rich made up.
5. First you LEARN, then you EARN.
You’re paid in proportion to the value you can add to the marketplace. Your truth is you can always increase your value output through education. Learn to use new tools and your productivity will increase and reveal how much you’re paid. Learn to build systems, learn to communicate and build teams, learn specific techniques by watching the masters. Start learning things that are valuable if you want to stop being broke.
The main issue most people encounter is that they have no idea how to learn. When we say education, their mind immediately goes to being in school. Learning how to learn is the ultimate skill one can possess. Once you get it, everything out there is up for grabs. Our life changed once continuous learning became a routine. Anything you aim to achieve in life can be learned. Take your learning skills, memory and life optimization to the next level.
6. Money grows on trees if you know what seeds to plant.
Here’s what most people do :
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Go to work
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Put in effort
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Get paid money
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Spend money
How dumb is that? They do this because the average person has no idea that there’re money trees out there, where if instead of spending the money, you plant it then nurture it and it grows into more money. By doing that, you won’t have to work anymore. You can just eat off of the money tree. This is the simplest way to explain the inequality of wealth around the world.
The poor spends money. The rich has money trees. You must be thinking : I’ve got bills to pay, I’ve got debt, I've to spend the money to feed my kids or to keep the lights on. But, the brutal truth is that almost everyone around the world has more money than they may need to survive. If you’re able to work, you have excess capital. The reason why there’s never enough money to plant money trees, it’s because you also want comfort. You tell yourself that you need the flat screen TV, the Apple watch, the latest iPhone…but in reality, you don’t need any of those fancy things, they’re just comfort.
You’re like a bird in a cage that’s getting fed twice a day. You’re comfortable, but not free. Some people have no desire to be free, they just love comfort. The moment you step out of your comfort zone by taking action and risks, you realize how much excess capital there’s in your life and that’s the key to your freedom. Do you want freedom badly enough to sacrifice comfort?
7. Money is never yours, it’s just your turn to hold it.
The entire world economy relies on spending, on money changing hands from one to another. Your entire financial life changes once you realize money is constantly flowing. If you want money, move yourself in life with the flow of money in the marketplace. It’s really that easy. All you have to do is take part in the marketplace of exchanges. Once you have it, it’s just a matter of time until you give it to someone else in exchange for something you value yourself more than money. Look around you and teach yourself to see the flow of money. Ask yourself :
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Who’s got my money?
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Who’s got money willing to pass it down?
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What people having money are looking for?
8. You don't spend money, you spend time.
We hate spending money because we understand this incredibly valuable lesson. You know how they say time is money. It’s actually the other way around, money is time.
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What is the cost for you to get money?
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What are you trading for it?
Yes, it’s your know-how, your talent and skills, but at the end of it all it’s your time that you’re selling. What you know how to do during a period of time is just a multiplier put on the value of your time. Let’s say you earn $100 per hour. If that sounds like a lot to you, you need to re-evaluate some things because that’s barely above $200,000 per year assuming you work 40 hours a week non-stop. When you buy a $40,000 car, you’re not paying with money, you’re paying with time. 400 hours of your life to be precise. The groceries you just purchase costs you 2 hours worth of work + the 40 min you spent in the store browsing the isles, time you were unable to monetize. If you want to take control of your financial life, you need to start thinking about sending in terms of time not money.
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How much time do I have to work in order to afford this?
That’s where the true value of your spending gets revealed to you.
9. You don't borrow money, you buy it at a higher price.
Stop thinking about debt the way you currently are. You’re not borrowing money, you’re renting it. Borrowing implies you return the item back to me after you used it. I lend you my iPad, you read the story, then you give it back to me. It’s the same iPad, you just used it for a while.
With money it’s completely different. You’re paying me to use my iPad before returning it back to me and if you don’t give it back, I can take the iPad and make you sell your house for the difference. In that case, you need to stop buying overpriced money.
Every time you borrow money, you’re robbing time and effort from your future self. The future you is getting screwed by the present-you, and it won’t be long until you become future-you, so stop screwing yourself with debt.
10. Money is a fungible token.
For those who are unfamiliar with crypto, it means that money is replaceable with similar money of the same value. A $100 bill is worth the same as every other $100 bill. This property is called fungibility. Many things are fungible and most of them are valuable. But there’s an entirely different world once you get rich and enter the non-fungible token world (NFT). An NFT is a digital asset that represents real-world objects like art, music, in-game items and videos. They are bought and sold online, frequently with cryptocurrency, and they are generally encoded with the same underlying software as many cryptos.
Take Mona Lisa for example, the original Mona Lisa is worth substantially more than every other Mona Lisa in existence. All the value lies with the original. If you want to become super wealthy in life, you need to become non-fungible or own things that are non-fungible and have value. If this point had your mind twisted, maybe it’s easier to start with the basics of blockchain and bitcoin.
11. Your money is your army, send it out to bring back prisoners.
Your money is made out of $1 soldiers. You want them all out, aggressive conquering land as market share and bringing back prisoners so your army grows. You want your money to be smart and not being captured by the enemy. The more money you can deploy, the higher your chance of winning the war. If you don’t have enough money to begin, consider guerilla tactics to get the upper hand.
12. You choose this life and make money out of it.
You chose to do this, there wasn’t anything else to do. So, you might as well cash in. Otherwise, what’s the point?! Right? If you know then, you know. This has been at the core of the discipline. When we think about money, we think in terms of choices. We chose this life, we keep doing this, we want to get good at this.
In order to compete with the all-time greats, we need to make money not only to sustain ourselves, but to reinvest and grow, to buy new tools, to hire more people, to train the staff to do things that nobody else has done before. If this is your purpose, if this is what you want to do for the rest of your life, make sure you give it your all.
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How do you quit after such a short period of time?
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Could you quit without making enough money?
13. Money doesn’t hold its value in time unless invested.
Thinking about the fact that money has been losing its power every day for the past 50 years. With the same amount of effort and time you can buy 25 times less stuff than you could have bought 100 years ago. Now, check out the link below for more information.
Value of $1 U.S. over the last 50 years.
The US dollar has depreciated 25 times and most countries use the US dollar as their reserve currency. If you live outside the US, your national currency probably depreciates even more. That’s why the rich don’t keep money in the bank or under the mattress, they reinvest. Because the money you hold loses value every day. Rich people look at cash the way you look at ice cubes in a warm room. Don’t hold the cash in your hand for too long because you might see it melt away!
14. Not all money is the same.
Most people have a maximalist approach when it comes to money. Europeans think in EURO, Americans think in DOLLAR, Russians think in RUBLE. They are accustomed to uni-directional thinking. The moment you zoom out, the world changes and the difference in value of money is revealed to you. There’s an entire world out there of financial arbitrage that could dramatically change the quality of your life. $1 million in Los Angeles barely buys you an apartment, while $1 million in Vietnam can buy you a hotel and provide for you for the rest of your life.!
15. Money exists only in our minds.
Yes, money isn’t real. Today, it’s just numbers, it’s unlimited and used as fuel for the world. The version of money we know since 1971 has been the biggest delusion history has ever seen. Money exists only in our minds and souls, the same with religion. The moment you get emotional about it, it will control your life. The moment you can step back and see it for what it is, you can reap all the benefits with none of the downsides. It’s only when you believe money doesn’t really matter that you escape the control of money! The same when you get rich.
Say "NO" to undead money. Once you have paid off your basic necessities, there are 3 ways to use your money :
This money spent is lost forever. You can enjoy yourself doing shopping spree, but there's no return.
This money becomes undead. You don't lose it right away, but it doesn't earn you anything. You feel like you've done something about your finances, but you've only prolonged a bad situation. Worse, with inflation increasing each year, you are gradually losing money!
This money is alive and goes to work for you. Every coin you invest can earn you more. This is the start of a virtuous circle that can take you very far. In the future, it can become something huge.
Now, let’s talk about TRUE PROPERTY.
You never had anything that was yours before. So, you think you’re free, you think you own yourself, your house, your car, your money…but you really don’t. If you own your house, what are property taxes then? How can you own money when they’re free to print more of it and rob you of your wealth in doing so? If they burn the piece of paper saying you own the land, is the land still yours?
The world, especially the wealthy, are really concerned with this idea of true property. Until the crypto revolution with NFTs, we haven’t been able to find anything that was true property. The more we thought about every single aspect of our life the more we realized how intertwined it was with the system. We love being in the system, there are more benefits than we can count, but this idea of true property outside of it all is incredibly interesting to us. We believe blockchain is the first time in history where true property is possible. Now, we’re talking about a place where you can own something and nobody else can take it away from you in any way.
This new place is called THE METAVERSE.
Twenty years from now, we believe most of the property contracts will be a mix between system-based and blockchain-based agreements. In our immediate lifetime, our entire understanding of property and money will change. The way we pay our taxes will change. We’re on the cusp of the biggest property revolution in human history and the majority of people have no idea what’s coming next. We believe everything we have will become an NFT and be embedded on the blockchain.
This will open up international trade for high value items. You will be able to buy property on the other side of the world the same way you order stuff off of Alibaba. You will be able to rent it out and receive payments without ever walking into it. Everyone will have access to everything just as it should be. For the first time in history, the world will connect in a single marketplace and you’re going to have a front row seat. This future will be a million times bigger than Amazon and the rest of the companies combined.
DON'T TAKE LIFE FOR GRANTED
Not only nothing is permanent in life, absolutely nothing is certain either. The sooner we understand that life offers no certainties whatsoever, the easier it becomes to handle life. Take it as a given that no matter how sure you are about anything in life, as you evolve, those certainties will disappear.
You can plant a seed and offer it all the nutrition and right conditions and yet there’s no assurance that it would ever sprout. On the other hand, a seed you discarded by chucking it in the rocks may turn out to be a giant tree. Either way, there are no guarantees.
No matter what decision you make, which path you take, you will not be greeted by certainty but by doubt, challenges and self-doubt and eventually rewards too. Keep walking. Our future is not set in stone, not everything is predestined. You can rewrite your script and work towards any desirable outcome, provided you understand that the goal you aim for may not be the outcome you actually seek at all. Or that the result you desire may not give you the fulfilment you anticipate. A lot can change, and often changes, from the moment we begin our journey to the time we reach our destination.
This uncertainty, unpredictability and impermanence is what makes our life both intriguing and beautiful.
If you really want to live your life and make the most of it, begin with the premise that life can be deeply confusing and even unfair at times. Bad things, terrible things, happen to good people all the time. If you think that those undergoing suffering are doing so purely on account of their own karma, think again. Frequently, we step into karmic field of other people that affects us too. If someone wears a strong perfume and comes in your vicinity, you too are forced to inhale that fragrance, for example. The karmic orbit is something like that.
To say that the law of karma, or any other, is absolute is to violate the first truth of certainty. Nothing is certain or absolute. Sometimes, some things have no explanation. Contradictory truths and paradoxes co-exist like darkness and light come together in twilight. Whatever be your belief and however sure you are of it, you will find enough evidence that will negate it.
The only thing you can do is to lead a truthful and meaningful life to the best of your ability. You do this for you, for your own peace of mind. Life is a good master but a bad trader. It does not really care about being fair or conforming to a standard, it knows no reason.
At any point in time, life will carry in its core plenty of confusions and contradictions. Accept it. While reasoning may douse our curiosity and help us grow, it doesn’t mean it will make us any happier. Happiness doesn’t come from reasoning, it comes from our understanding and acceptance. And as far as life is concerned, there’s little to understand.
No matter how dire the circumstances, mostly, life is a blessing. There are only two ways to lead your life: you can either live it like it’s a blessing or it isn’t. Either way, the most important thing to remember is that no one’s life has ever got better by complaining about it. Life doesn’t hear our complaints and that’s often a good thing because mind is always complaining about one thing or the other anyway. It would be impossible to function if life actually started listening to our whining.
Whatever be your past, wherever you were, could or should have been, the truth is you are here, now. This is it. This is life. And really, there are only two choices: start living it or keep complaining. If you want to start living your life, all you have to do is start from where you are now bearing in mind that you can only walk the path and be prepared at the most. It might rain when you expected sunshine. I’m not saying it’s a gamble but the outcome is not entirely in our hands.
If you want to see how your life is a blessing, simply take a notepad and write down what’s good in your life. There has to be something you like about your life. Write it down. It’ll evoke positive emotions of gratitude and admiration in you so you may see the brighter side.
By hope, I don’t mean that your dreams will come true. I simply mean that it only takes a spark to ignite a wildfire. That spark can come from anywhere. While life may disappoint you by not turning out the way you once envisaged, it will still end up somewhere beautiful if you are opened to possibilities.
To give your hope(s) a chance, you have to be real. Day dreaming is fine at times but be real. Get back to the basics, go back to the drawing board and start from where you are. Don’t lose your dream or the action required to realize it. Something or the other will work out. It always does in some way. Life does not stop for anyone, for any reason. Have faith and hope.
Maybe you’ve had a tough life, you dealt with a lot and maybe you are under a lot of stress, your problems are grave and things are really difficult.
Agreed. Fine. Such is life. Now what?
We live in a world where countless people suffer on a daily basis for no fault of theirs, where some of our fellow beings are dying because they can’t afford food or medication, where millions of people lead incredibly lonely lives, where millions of children are abused, women beaten and innocent killed.
We don’t need more religion, division, politics or talk shows. We need harmony and compassion, neither of which are possible unless we are hopeful and positive, unless we begin to see life as a blessing, until we start to accept the ways of our existence. Harmony is happiness. Repeatedly, I’ve seen that when we are ungrateful, Nature takes away the good from us and gives it to the one who will value it.
If you feel that your life could be more beautiful, take charge and work towards it for our actions alone steer our life. No doubt that our thoughts, words, emotions and desires influence, but ultimately what greets us in the future is what we create with our acts in the present. The more real your action, the more positive the reaction.
You can complain about what’s not right in your past or present. Or, you can take the world in your stride and see where life takes you.
Step out of your shoes and take a walk on the path of life. Allow the morning dew adorning the green grass like pearls sprinkled on some divine ground to touch your feet. Let the grandeur, splendor and love of nature seep into your heart so you may befriend your life with all its uncertainties and intrigue. Bliss will radiate from every pore of your existence.
Remember that, life isn't a straight path. It's a roller coaster path. It's not about what happens to you, but it's about how you react to it. It's not about trying to be perfect, nobody's perfect and life either. Good things happen...Bad things happen too. God is able to turn life around, so don't take anything for granted.
These are some habits mentally strong people usually do :
- They take risks.
- They're kind, fair and unafraid to speak up.
- They embrace change and welcome challenges.
- They move on and don't feel sorry about themselves.
- They celebrate other people success and learn from it.
- They stay happy and they're aware of things they can't control.
If you want to be successful in life, you need to stop complaining and start embracing, acting, taking ownership and implementing positive changes accordingly to move forward and be a better version of yourself.
Life is too short to not be yourself.
Life is too short to not ask for what you want.
Life is too short to not go after what you love.
Life is too short to not recognize your own light.
Life is too short to not treat and forgive yourself.
Life is too short to not accept your authentic self.
Life is too short to not seek high-quality experiences.
Life is too short to not show appreciation for loved ones.
Life is too short to not find community that is nourishing.
You can't pour from an empty cup.
Practice acceptance moving forward.
Keep doing things that help you grow.
Sometimes you've to spend time with yourself.
Allow yourself the space to attract new better things.
IMPACT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE
Why does Mbappé earn 6 million euros a month?
That's a lot to "run behind a ball..."
His salary doesn't really reflect his mastery of football.
It shows a lot about the speed at which one can get rich.
When Mbappé runs on the pitch, the whole planet watches him.
In some way, it impacts the lives of millions of people.
Some people will say that he takes advantage of Qataris money.
He is paid a fortune by sponsors, brands, endorsements.
But, if advertisers take out the checkbook, it's because every time Mbappé plays, millions of people turn on their TV to watch him.
Impact is therefore a fundamental notion.
Think about influencers or reality TV starlets.
Each time they post on the net, millions of people watch them.
Do we all have to create an Instagram account? Not at all.
But, having a social media presence can change your life.
How many people am I able to impact?
Let's take the example of real estate.
You buy an apartment that you rent for 800€ / month.
Therefore, you impact only 1 person for a good profitability.
Then, you turn the room into a 4-bedroom shared apartment.
You end up impacting the lives of 4 people.
You can rent it 400€ / room which means 1,600€ / month.
Then, you've doubled your profitability by impacting more people.
You take the same flatshare that you rent by the week, on Airbnb.
Now, you're impacting 4 rooms x 4 weeks = 16 people.
At 30€ per night, you receive 3360€ over the month.
In this case, your profitability doubles once again.
The more lives you impact, the more money you make.
This is why the wage labor is not enough to be rich.
If you're an employee, you've to deliver to your boss. So, you only impact one person which is your boss.
Your boss, through his company and employees, impacts thousands of customers seeking for help.
At the end of the day, he's the one who collects the big money.
Which brings us back to : How many people can I impact?
The first thing to do is to multiply your sources of income.
Then, you can optimize those sources of income.
You'll have more impact by solving people's problems.
The more businesses you have, the more funds you raise.
A roommate pays twice as much as a normal rental.
Turning one of your properties into a shared apartment allows you to earn even faster in the long term because, you can collect twice as much rent.
The only downside is that you've to spend a little time on it.
Not everyone is ready to make this effort.
But, you won't get anything from doing nothing.
There are many ways to invest in real estate with more than 10% ROI without devoting hours to it or getting a loan from the bank.
The easiest and safest way to invest in real estate without having to suffer from the constraints, is to surround yourself with people who made it.
DIVING INTO EMOTIONS
Happiness is a state of mind, a choice, a way of living. It’s not something to be achieved, it’s something to be experienced.
The hardest part of getting things done is to get started.
There’s no friendship on Internet, only interested people.
Many times, you feel down and hopeless, especially when you’re on social media and can’t help but compare yourself to others.
Believing in yourself long enough is what will make you succeed.
The journey to be successful isn't easy.
Always be grateful for everything you've accomplished so far and set your goals to make your dream a reality.
You’ll take decisions that others may not understand.
Keep holding to your vision because one day they will understand.
Concentration builds wealth. Diversification keeps wealth.
You can literally just focus on one thing and kind of scale that up.
Once you have enough cashflow, you can invest your money and diversify into whatever else you want to do to make even more money.
The biggest challenge with being so good at what you do, is getting enough infrastructure to drive enough businesses.
The world is constantly evolving : more people, more technology, more sales, more marketing, more products.
Ultimately, all those parameters can have an impact in your life.
Not using this sttrategy can become a disadvantage in the future.
Then, you scale and start making profits solving people's issues.
You can have whatever you want if you’re willing to bleed for it.
Train your mind harder than your body.
Never accept someone else’s limitation.
Visualize what you want all the time.
Learn the meaning of overload.
Don't be afraid to try new things.
Failure is essential to mental growth.
Sacrifice is part of the game to become better every day.
Most of people aren’t willing to lock in and go monk mode.
Everything has a price, your dream life has a price too.
People will always hate on what they gave up on themselves.
There's no better feeling than proving people they're wrong.
Wealth isn’t just about strategy, it's about belief as well.
If you made through the pandemic, you can make through anything in your life.
When it comes to real estate, allowing people make the offer first can lead you to a great sale's agreement.
Many times, you can shoot yourself in the foot and aim lower than you thought you can get.
Sometimes, the number can even double, it's a game changer.
Another advice would be taking a breather from the situation.
What I mean is, you’ll have a initial conversation with someone and you’ll have gotten an offer from it and reciprocate with something higher.
If you guys cannot come to an agreement, let a little time pass like two days and then come back to the situation. It’s almost like being in a relationship, you cannot be desperate if you want to make things work.
Coming from a position of power is always the better route as opposed to coming in asking for something.
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Lesson #1 : Don't ask people for their opinion.
Don't listen to those who haven't done anything in their life.
Asking people for their opinion is weakening your own voice.
When you keep asking for advice, you keep asking for permission.
Those people don't care about your dreams and feelings.
Most of the time, people aren't giving wisdom, they're giving your their own fears and insecurities.
They'll tell you to play safe because they never take risks.
They'll tell you it won't work because they've never made it work.
If you listen to them, you don't just lose time, you lose yourself.
The more you ask, the more you doubt.
And, the more you doubt, the less you move.
Lesson #2 : Clinginess is messing up your whole life.
Somebody's clinginess, especially women, is evident when that person cries at the thought of being left alone.
The thing that is keeping you stuck isn’t fear, it’s the attachment to what feels safe.
It makes you build your entire identity around what’s predictable, familiar and easy to control.
When an opportunity that requires you to stretch, to risk and leverage comes to you, you pull back.
Not because you can’t but because it feels comfortable.
The worst part is when you defend it, making it sound reasonable.
Everything you want is already available to you but you’re not available to it and you refuse to let go what feels safe.
Lesson #3 : GOD won't give you more unless you trust the process along the way.
You trust GOD but, when it comes to money, you live in fear and hold yourself back.
You pray for abundance but the moment you get money, you hold on it like it’s your last you’ll ever see.
You stress, hesitate to invest and operate from lack not from faith.
But, if you truly believed in GOD’s abundance, you wouldn’t hold, you wouldn’t shrink yourself and let money control you.
Fear is what blocks flow. Get rid of your doubts.
Money moves with trust, it doesn't move with uncertainty.
GOD won’t give you more if you don’t believe he will.
Lesson #4 : You're not smarter than GOD.
You prayed for peace but he/she removed the person causing your anxiety and you fought him/her for it.
You asked for growth but he/she put you in pain and you begged him/her to stop.
People are looking for alignment in different aspects of life whether it's about money, health or relationship.
When you try to control every step, you keep questioning why things didn't happen the way you imagined.
Maybe GOD didn't give you what you want because he's trying to give you what you're ready for.
You don't need more force, you need more faith.
It's the difference between pressure and peace.
Stop grieving the plan you made in your head, and start trusting the one GOD has in store for you.
Lesson #5 : Get a grip and hold some power.
Why are you breaking yourself down into clearance rack energy just to be liked by people who would never qualify for your presence?
You’re the lifestyle, the iced matcha before noon.
Some people are softening their own standards, making themselves smaller and more digestible just to fit into rooms that they’re meant to disrupt.
But, they’re never meant to blend in, they’re meant to be talked about, to walk in and shift entire frequency without having to say a word.
It doesn’t happen when you’re busy proving your worth to people who secretly want your life and would never admit it.
Stop performing humility for the comfort of people who can’t handle confidence.
Stop editing excellence just to avoid being labeled as too much.
You aren’t too much. You’re the blueprint, the original.
Start acting like it and let the world adjust to you.
Lesson #6 : Humility has never paid the bills.
People use to be told to stay humble.
However, you need to know that humility has never paid your bills.
You spend years making yourself small and vulnerable.
You keep downplaying your winds, lowering your voice and waiting for permission to shine.
You think being humble would earn your respect.
You tell yourself if I stay humble, success will find me.
Humility doesn't open doors, it keeps you outside waiting for someone else to let you in.
The loudest person in the room isn't always the smartest.
But, there're the ones people remember.
The person who owns their worth, gets oppotunities.
The ones who speak with authority, get listened to.
Meanwhile, the humble ones are still in their shadows wondering why nobody sees them. It's not arrogance, it's certainty.
It's knowing who you're and refusing to apologize for.
When you shrink yourself, the world treats you like you're small.
Take up space and own your success with pride.
Move like you belong to because you really do.
Lesson #7 : Your soft era is what keeps you broke.
You think you're healing, resting, protesting your peace.
But, the only thing you do is avoiding.
You've turned softness into an excuse to stay small, to stay passive, to stay invisible.
You've wrapped all those things in aesthetics quotes, so nobody calls you out on it.
You're not resting, you're hiding.
You're calling it flow when really it's fear.
You're waiting for life to get easier and don't get stronger.
Softness without structure is weakness.
Rest without responsabilities is running.
People you admire, the ones living softness, they've earned it.
They fought first, built first, worked first.
They didn't lay down hoping life handed to them on a soft pillow.
They've built their empire from the ground up themselves.
Your soft era is keeping you broke, distracted and small.
Softness without ambition isn't power, it leads to average.
Lesson #8 : Luxury energy isn't Chanel bags.
If you think luxury is Chanel bags, you're wrong.
Real luxury is how unavailable you are to chaos.
Real luxury is having so much discipline, power, internal order that you don't need to flex.
Because, your life is the flex.
Chanel bags without boundaries is poverty.
A closet full of labels and a calendar full of low vibe people isn't wealth, it's insecurity wrapped in aesthetics.
Luxury is saying no without explaining yourself.
Luxury is waking up knowing you can pay for anything because you've built something that no one else can take away from you.
Stop chasing the look of luxury and build a life that makes you unshakable because luxury isn't what you wear, it's who you refuse to tolerate.
Lesson #9 : Build up your self-confidence.
Confidence isn't built through the mirror, it's built through personal branding and marketing.
You can repeat all the affirmations of the world, but if you don't feel content, you'll still crumble the moment life starts testing you.
Real confidence isn't how pretty you look walking to any room, it's knowing that you belong there.
It's knowing that you've the skill sets to lead, speak, sell, create and rebuild your life from scratch if you had to.
Every skill you stack is a brick in the foundation of unshakable self worth : sales, speaking, content, leadership, discipline.
That's what makes you dangerous. Not the outfit, not the followers, not the filters.
Skills always make you move forward to success.
Beauty fades. Trends shift. People forget.
But, a skilled person is never broke, invisible and irrelevant.
You walk into any room knowing that you can't be replaced because you're too capable to be erased.
Lesson #10 : Don't get far on a path that wasn't yours to walk.
Maybe you don't need to find more energy.
Maybe you need to find a dream that actually makes you want to get up in the morning.
Maybe you need to find what gives you back more than it takes.
Maybe you need to stop trying to be good at 100 things.
You have to choose the one that does and asks you to take risks to lay your heart bare, to try even more even though you're scared.
You're not failing because you're not motivated.
Lesson #11 : Millionaires master boredom.
Everyone wants to be a millionaire, but nobody wants to repeat.
Millionaires always master boredom.
Making millions isn't a movie, isn't viral, isn't sexy.
It's the same moves going on repeat until the world claps.
Most of people quit when it feels repetitive.
They confuse boredom with misalignment when in reality it's the birthplace of mastery.
You're not stuck, you're impatient because you chase dopamine instead of discipline.
You keep looking for new strategy, new offer, new business.
The real breakthrough is in doing the same thing but better.
That's why broke people keep restarting, going nowhere and rich people keep repeating, reaching their goal destination.
You don't need more ideas, you need more consistency.
You don't need more motivation, you need to fall in love with what's boring and keep the momentum going.
The game doesn't reward creativity, it rewards those who keep showing up longer enough after the spark is gone.
Lesson #12 : Business is a lonely journey.
The reason why most people, especially women, struggle in business is sisterhood.
The lone wolf mentality is slowing down.
Men scale through alliances and would go to jail for each other.
Women get stuck in silent competition.
Most women think they're being independent but deep down, they don't trust each other.
They've been betrayed by girls that smiled at their face and gossiped the second they left the room.
So now, when a woman see another powerful woman, she competes and doubts.
She supports women but the only ones who don't trigger her.
She thinks collaborations feel unsafe and vulnerability feels risky.
She believes that there is only one seat at the table.
What if the real block to the next level in business isn't a lack of talent but a lack of trust.
What if your next million is hidden inside the woman you hate for being successful but secretly envy at the same time.
You can't build empires if you're still stuck in mean girl trauma.
Healing your sisterhood wounds isn't personable, it's profitable.
You don't need more competition, you need more connection.
The woman you're avoiding, might be the one who holds your next breakthrough. So, you should connect with her.
Lesson #13 : Smart people overthink.
The smartest people in the room usually stay broke because they confuse overthinking with strategy.
When they move, someone bolder already cashed the check.
They overanalyze every step until the opportunity disappears.
They write 5 years plans, study 10 business models, take 3 more courses and still don't launch.
They confuse mental gymnastics with strategy, they want everything to make perfect sense before they move.
But unfortunately, success doesn't work like that.
Money doesn't go to the smartest, it goes to the fastest.
The ones willing to fail forward, to learn in action, to make mistakes, to take messy decisions and fix them later.
Meanwhile, the overthinkers stay in the same loop waiting, planning, doubting even more.
In business world, this isn't called intelligence, it's called fear.
At some point, you need to stop being the smartest in the room and start being the one who actually executes.
Lesson #14 : It's OK to need help.
Poor people hide their problems while rich people hire help.
Poor mindsets pride themselves on struggling alone.
They hide their problems and call it being strong.
Rich people delegate, ask for help, hire people.
They know that every hour spent struggling in silence, is a hour stolen from their greatness.
Pride keeps poor people stuck because they'd rather be seen as self sufficient than actually be supported.
Rich people know how to surround themselves and delegate.
You don't get to success by doing everything yourself, you get there by asking better questions, investing in better people and refusing to carry what someone else can solve.
You aren't weak needing help, you're weak pretending you don't.
Lesson #15 : Being obsessed isn't toxic.
Clocking into a job you hate, living for the weekend, scrolling your life away, numbing yourself with distractions and calling it balance is toxic.
Numbing your potential to fit into a system designed to keep you average is the real sickness.
The matrix doesn't punish the lazy, it punishes the obsessed.
Obsessed people don't comply, they don't need permission and stop waiting and explaining.
The reason why they're called dangerous, intense and unhealthy is because their focus threatens their comfort.
The truth is, nobody gets free without going tunnel vision.
You either get obsessed or you get controlled by the system.
Lesson #16 : Wanting everything is losing everything.
When you want everything, you stop valuing anything.
You want every relationship, so you never protect the right one.
You want every opportunity, so you never master the one that could actually change your life.
You want every lifestyle, but you can't have them all. Then, you keep staying broke because you can't decide which one you want.
The more you grab, the empthier your hands become.
Nothing compounds when your loyalty is divided.
Focus builds wealth. Gratitute builds peace.
Chasing everything will leave you restless, distracted, unsatisfied no matter how much you collect.
You don't lose everything because you didn't get it, you lose everything because you couln't choose.
Lesson #17 : Poverty is the parent of crime
When people have nothing to lose, rules don't matter anymore.
Poverty doesn't just create struggle, it also creates chaos.
They don't care about the laws, they care about survival.
Broke people don't dream about peace, they dream about escape.
Poverty raises children in fight mode.
It teaches them to hustle before they can spell, to lie before they can trust, to take before they can ask.
That's why cycles repeat because poverty isn't just about empty pockets, it rewires your entire brain.
Poverty doesn't always show up as crime, it also shows up as silence, as parents being too tired to be present as kids who grew up faster than they should, as families who stay in survival mode for generations.
Real wealth isn't flexing cars and watches, it's about getting freedom from survival mode.
The opposite of poverty isn't wealthiness, it's peace.
Lesson #18 : I'm a lottery ticket, a winning one.
Most people spend their lives scratching tickets, waiting for a miracle, hoping for an early escape from their daily routine.
But, you don't find luck, you create it in silence, discipline and choices no one claps for.
Be the one who change someone's life by being an inspiration.
Make people feel like they won the lottery learning from you.
Lesson #19 : Addiction when it comes to attention and money.
Addiction to attention is worse than attention to money.
People would degrade themselves to get attention from others posting things they don't even align with.
They hang around people who don't respect them and live a lifestyle they can't afford just for an audience that will forget about them tomorrow.
Seeking for attention is more dangerous than seeking for money because money at least has rules. You can count it, measure it, invest it.
Attention is unstable and emotional. It vanishes the second something shinier shows up, even more on social media.
That's why we see big influencers with millions of followers having zero dollars. They're mistaking clout for currency.
Attention might make them feel rich but it spends poor.
Money is power because it buys freedom and independence.
Attention is slavery because it demands you to perform daily.
You don't want people to forget you, so you keep chasing their attention to do not feel outdated.
The more you get addicted to attention, the less you have control over your own life.
People that actually win, are those who use that attention as a leverage not a lifeline.
They don't chase it, they convert it because at the end of the day, clout doesn't pay the bills.
You can't pass attention to children, but you can pass ownership.
There're people who get famous in the moment and people who get rich forever.
Lesson #20 : Life doesn't check your ID before it blesses you.
People act like starting over is failure, but it's not.
Starting over is the proof that you've the courage to start over from what wasn't working.
If you outgrow an environment, a relationship or a career, staying stuck is the real failure.
Starting over means you're giving yourself another shot, another chance at peace and alignment.
Whether it's at 25, 40 or 60 it doesn't matter.
Some of the wealthiest people on earth became who they are now because they had the guts to start over when everyone else was too scared.
You don't run out of chance, you actually run out of courage and the second you choose courage, you get a new life with what you truly desire.
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